You Have Ruined Me” — Message Terrifies Sophia Momodu As Admirer Sends Emotional Text Hours After Meeting Her

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Sophia Momodu, the mother of singer Davido’s first child, has sparked fresh conversation on social media after revealing a message she received from a man she only met a few hours earlier. Taking to her Snapchat, the fashion entrepreneur expressed genuine fear about the behaviours of Lagos men, especially those who display intense emotional interest too quickly.

In the screenshot she shared, the potential suitor professed strong feelings for her in a dramatic manner, writing: “My Sophia, you have ruined me by exposing me to the heaven of you. I constantly want to be in your presence. Are you busy today?”

The message, which many online users have described as overly intense, immediately unsettled Sophia. Responding publicly, she explained that this kind of exaggerated affection is exactly why she often warns her friends about dating experiences in Lagos. According to her, receiving such a heavy, romantic statement from someone she had barely known for a few hours was nothing short of alarming.

Expressing disbelief, she reacted: “I always tell my friends, I’m scared of Lagos men, cos sending this to someone you just met a few hours ago is wild. My Sophia nke? As how?? It’s giving love bombing pro max. No thanks.”

Her comment quickly stirred reactions from fans, who debated whether the admirer’s message was romantic, desperate, manipulative, or simply an attempt at poetic affection gone wrong. The incident has added fuel to the ongoing conversation about love bombing, emotional intensity in early relationships, and the dating culture among Lagos men.

Sophia’s post has once again placed her at the center of social media attention, as many praised her for calling out unhealthy emotional behaviour, while others criticized the admirer’s approach as unnecessary and overwhelming.

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